3 life wisdoms I live my life by...
Do you ever feel like you're going through life waiting for things to magically fall into place?
I know you do. But somewhere along the way, I came across three powerful pieces of wisdom - each from a different, brilliant mind - that changed my whole perspective on life.
These wisdoms not only guided me in pursuing my dreams but also helped me find peace and joy in the chaos of life.
So grab your favorite cup of tea, curl up in your coziest corner, and come immerse yourself in these life-changing thoughts...
And hey, we'll keep it real (and a little fun) along the way!
1. "It's your mind that creates this world. " - Buddha
When I first read this, I thought, "Great, now my mind is responsible for everything.? No pressure!" But the Buddha's quote is simple but profound: how we perceive things shapes our reality. It's the same reason why two people can go through the exact same situation but come out of it with completely different feelings. It's all in our minds!
A real-life example? Okay, let's talk about Mondays. I used to dread Mondays like a weekly dentist appointment. But one day I decided to try that "your mind makes this world " thing. Instead of waking up with an internal groan, I started telling myself that Mondays are a new beginning - a miniature New Year every week. I put on my favorite playlist and made myself an indulgent cup of coffee, and suddenly Mondays didn't feel like torture.
The change didn't happen overnight, but after a while, I started to really look forward to the start of each week (Okay, looking forward may be an exaggeration. But whatever, at least I'm not a grumpy owl about it anymore).
Tip: Next time you're stressed, take a moment to stop and check your mind. Ask yourself: "Is this really as bad as I think it is?". Often it's not the situation that's terrible - it's our thoughts about it that pull us down into a black hole of negativity.
2. "Jump - you'll find out how to spread your wings on the way down." - Ray Bradbury
This one's for all the thoughtful people out there. Yes, I'm talking to you. To those who dream of starting a business on the side, writing a book, or even just taking a yoga class, but haven't taken a step yet because everything has to be perfect first. Spoiler alert: it's never going to be perfect. Never.
Take the example of Bradbury, who basically said: "Jump, girl! You'll figure it out when you do." I remember when I decided to start my own business. I had no idea what I was doing, and frankly, I was afraid I was going to fail. But the alternative - staying in a soul-sucking job - seemed worse. So I took the plunge. And guess what? The wings? They show up when you need them. Yes, I was floundering at first, but I gradually learned to navigate, and that "spreading of wings" still happens today.
Hint: If you're waiting for the "perfect time" to make a big move, I have a secret for you: it doesn't exist. Just start. Action creates momentum and that builds confidence. You'll figure out the details as you go. Trust me, you're much more capable than you think.
3. "We become the peephole through which the Universe examines itself." - Alan Watts
I love this quote because it evokes in me a delicious sense of humility and cosmic wonder at the same time. I mean, a peephole? Come on! The universe is a grand, majestic thing, and yet here we are, little peepers, each with our own perspective and experience. But it also reminds me that my life is part of something much bigger than my everyday concerns.
Whenever I feel like I'm not doing enough or that my dreams are too small, this quote calms me down. It helps me realize that just by living authentically, by pursuing what fills my life, I am fulfilling my part in this great cosmic dance. Whether it's writing, running a business, or starting a conversation that sparks change - you're not just living your life, you're playing a role in something universal.
Tip: When life seems overwhelming, make it smaller. Maybe far away. Look at the stars (seriously, go out at night and look up!).
Remember that the universe is vast and you are a unique part of it. Suddenly, your worries about whether your next step is "right" will seem a lot less. Trust the direction it's pointing you in...
He knows why he's doing it.
Jump, think happy, and be a celestial glow...
These three pieces of wisdom - whether calming my mind, spreading my wings, or looking out into space - have been my anchors. They have helped me to stop waiting for life to happen and start living it, with everything I have.
So the next time you find yourself overthinking or feeling stuck, remember this: you have the power to change your perspective, you are more capable than you think, and just by being here, you are part of something magnificent.
Now go and spread your wings! The universe is in your favor...
What wisdom do you live by? What quotes, thoughts or moments shape your journey?
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