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10 self-development questions you should ask yourself every day


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Greetings, you beautiful, unstoppable force of nature!

Let's be real: life is one big balancing act, and as women, we often juggle everything from careers and relationships to making sure the flowers at home don't feel abandoned (they have feelings too, okay?). But in this chaos, there is one thing that always deserves a piece of your attention: YOU.

 

Enter the daily ritual of self-development questions. Think of them like a personal GPS - they recalculate your path to success, happiness, and the kind of energy that makes people wonder if you're secretly driven by some cosmic force.

Are you ready to dive in?

 

Grab a cup of your favorite tea (or a drop of bubbly, whichever you prefer), and let's talk about these 10 game-changing questions...

 

1. What am I grateful for today?

Before you roll your eyes - yes, it's a cliché, but it works like a charm. Gratitude rewires your brain to focus on the good stuff. Even if your day was a circus, there's always something to appreciate.

Example? Gratitude for your best friend sending you that funny TikTok? Or for the fact that your dog finally learned NOT to eat your slippers? Boom - gratitude has been achieved.

 

2. Did I take care of myself today?

Taking care of yourself isn't just a bubble bath and a face mask (although those are awesome). It's eating your veggies, saying "no" when you need to, and getting enough sleep. Ask yourself: Have I treated myself like someone I love?

Tip: The next time you're tempted to skip lunch for Zoom calls, imagine your best friend doing it. You'd tell her to take a break, so practice what you preach!

 

3. Am I spending my energy on things that really matter to me?

Energy is as valuable as the last slice of pizza. Don't waste it on fateful Instagram scrolls or saying "yes" to things that exhaust you.

You're not a therapist for Caroline at work who needs to sort out her 17th failed online date. Politely leave the chat. Your energy deserves better.

 

4. What did I learn today?

Learning isn't just for classrooms or LinkedIn courses. It's everywhere! Have you finally figured out how to fold a tension sheet? That's a win. Did you learn that saying "no" to plans is like sweet freedom? Another win.

Tip: Take a little notebook to write down these little lessons. It's like your personal wisdom vault.

 

5. Am I challenging myself enough?

Growth doesn't happen in a comfort zone. (Ugh, I know, I get it!) Whether you sign up for that Pilates class you've been eyeing or finally have that tough conversation, challenge yourself to take a small, bold step.

A friend of mine recently applied for her dream job, even though she was scared to death of rejection. Spoiler: she got it! Push yourself - you might even surprise yourself.

 

6. How did I show kindness today?

Kindness doesn't have to be spectacular. It's the little things - smiling at a stranger, holding the door, or texting a friend just to say, "You're awesome." It's always true. Bonus: kindness is the best way to improve your mood.

Remember the barista at the coffee shop who seemed stressed this morning? You told her, "Your hair is amazing today," and she beamed. Kind karma = unlocked.

 

7. What am I doing for my future?

Every day is a brick on the road to your dream life. What one thing did you do today to move you closer to it?

Tip: If you're saving for a trip to Paris, you may have skipped ordering takeout and cooked at home. The future you in a beret will thank you.

 

8. Did I allow myself to feel my emotions?

Life isn't all sunshine and rainbows, and that's okay. Ignoring your feelings is like ignoring a crying toddler - it won't end well. Ask yourself if you checked in with your heart today.

Have you ever cried at a dog food commercial? Great, likewise. Give it a pass and then move on with a lighter heart.

 

9. Am I surrounding myself with the right people?

Energy vampires exist. If your immediate circle of people isn't encouraging you, it's time to reevaluate who gets a seat at your table.

What happens when you accomplish something in your life? You rejoice on all sides. But the friend who only texts to complain about her ex certainly doesn't. Maybe set some boundaries.

 

10. What made me laugh today?

Laughter is like a reset button for your soul. Whether it's a meme, your partner's terrible jokes about your mother, or your cat falling off the couch, find joy in the absurd little moments.

Tip: If nothing made you laugh today, fix it now. Go see a comedy or text your funniest friend. Laughter is therapy but without the bill.

 

 

How to sum it up?

 

These questions aren't about being perfect (who has time for that?).

They're about staying connected to what matters most: your growth, happiness, and energy.

 

So tomorrow morning, before you tackle your to-do list, ask yourself these 10 questions.

And remember, every little effort counts. You've got this - one laugh, one lesson, and one small victory at a time.

 

Now go forth and conquer, queens. Your better future is calling!

 


How much do these questions resonate with you? Has there been any realization in your life?

Let me know in the comments...



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